Is your relationship shaky😠💔❤

If you are in a shaky or fractured relationship there is still hope .

Is there a sense of guilt, fear and shame in the relationship?

When things begin to happen in a relationship no one wants to own up. Instead each person starts criticizing each other. They start looking for the simplest things to criticize . You did this or that to me -you were bitter and angry😡 at me. I did not like how you spoke to me or how you answered when I called you.

Before you criticize anyone, you must first check your self, turn that finger and point 👈👉 towards you- are you without guilt?  Anyone can tell you guilt is a real horrible emotion to have.  When you are guilty you try to cover up by looking for it in your partner or someone else.

To get over this you have to learn to forgive. Forgiveness is at the heart of every relationship. It is the basis of love. When you love😍 truly love you learn to forgive.

Can you look your partner /spouse in the eye and say – I forgive you. This can be hard for some people. Take some time and compose yourself and forgive.  Once you do this you would feel a sense of freedom, because forgiveness actually liberates you. Try it.

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How to handle differences

The last time you got into an argument how did you handle the differences.

Sometimes before we can think the words fly out and the fingers start pointing.

We judge and accuse not realizing that there are simple solutions to these differences.

Our differences should not find their way to court or to divorce. So how do we handle them?

1.Pray and examine yourself, your heart. Is this what you want . What lead you to this.

2. Put yourself in the other person’s shoes. How do you feel about the situation?

3. Are there ways you both can get a yes?

4.What is the purpose of your relationship?

5. Can you forgive that person?

6. Can they forgive you?

7. Can you behold that person with the eyes of love and glory in their perfection, just as God our creator beholds you with eyes of love.

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