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Monday Morning MEM0 1907219- This Week’s Strategy.


This week’s strategy – The one thing you must do.

Your industry may be closed, no money coming in, rent has to be paid, other monthly expenses must be paid, relationships not where you want them to be, the job is more stressful, working from home sucks, you can complain about everything but there is one thing that you must do.


You see we all want things to go well for us and our families. We all want a thriving business, good relationships at home and on the job. How are all these things going to happen? Business maybe closed now because of the pandemic but what is going to happen when business reopen? Are you going to keep whining and complaining until it is time to open?


If you want to get on with anything the one thing you must do is to  take action. Nothing is going to happen unless you do something, that is take action. Your business is not going to make it unless you take some action to get things going. You must review your strategy, your operations, your suppliers. Your relationship is not going to make it unless you take action. Relationships like everything else must be maintained. How are you going to do this? If they are shaky what is your plan to get them back together? The job is not going to get better unless you take action.  Do you need to look for another Job? Do you need to update your skills? What can you do in your present job differently? By now you get the point.


How you go about taking action is another story. You can’t just go and start doing things haphazardly.  You have to do some planning. You have to work on each challenge or issue to explore your options and  see what you could do. You have to work the issue – be specific about it, what is happening,  has it happened before? Has this happened to anyone else? Is this a past issue that you are worrying about or is it in  the future? How is it going to affect you?   What are the things in your control? What are the things you do not have control of?  What are the actions you could take to help resolve your challenges? Can you do it alone? Do you need help to explore your options?


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Do you invest in your relationships?

Do you invest in your relationships?

I heard this when listening to an online sermon and I wondered if we ever think of this. We are all in relationships one way or another. If you are married and you have children you are in a relationship with your spouse and your children.  If you have a business you have relationships with your clients, your business associates, your staff. If you work for someone or a company there are the on the job relationships and the customer relationships which is the only way to do the job in any case. If you believe you are not in any of these relationships then there is the relationship with God he created you so there is no choice that relationship has already been established. So how do you invest in your relationship?
Let’s take a look at your relationship with your spouse.  How are you investing in this?
Marriages are like houses or vehicles there is always some kind of maintenance. Are you maintaining your marriage or is it at a standstill waiting for something to happen then you start to repair it. Do you know your spouse in-depth or just on the surface? I know people who use other people to help them purchase gifts for their spouse because they are not sure what they would prefer. On the other hand, when buying gifts people stick to basics e.g cologne, flowers, or something for the house. If you know what makes your spouse tick then you would know exactly what to get him or her. It makes sense to discover your spouse, but first, you must discover you – how do you operate, what do you like and don’t like. When you know yourself then you could discover more about your spouse to understand how they operate. Take time to observe the way your spouse reacts to various situations. Also, listen not only to what they are saying but what they are not saying by the body language and facial expressions. This is the same for your children and even your relatives.

What about your co-workers?  There are persons in the office who prefer not to go to a certain individual. They do not like how they speak to them or they may say – I do not like how he or she operates. When work has to get done you need to communicate with persons you work with, by avoiding them you are creating more disunity. They would soon realize that you are staying away from them and sooner or later this relationship is going to affect your performance and the company’s performance. It would be so much better if you took the time to figure why you respond to this person in that way. What is the real cause for avoiding the person, or what is causing them to tick you off?

If you are heavily involved with clients or customer service you would recognize that relationships are key to maintaining clients for your business.  If clients are not comfortable with you they would take their business elsewhere. I have heard of people who research their clients prior to meeting with them to ensure that the relationship gets off on a good start.

Your relationship with God is key. This is the very first relationship and it maps out your relationship with others. Without a relationship with God who is the creator of everything and everybody, it is a challenge to maintain any other relationship. Look at anybody’s relationship and this would give you a good idea about their relationship with God. Whether we like it or not we were made to be in relationships and we have to invest time and energy in them.

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You and your relationships

It is hard to be in a relationship with anyone if you do not know yourself.

What are you good at? What are things you do not like or do not like to do?  Do you take full responsibility for your decisions? What is important to you?

Anthony Robbins cited six  different needs as follows:

  • Certainty   – wanting to be sure about everything. Not taking risks.
  • Significance – being the life of the party.
  • Uncertainty/Variety – enjoying variety in what we do and how we live.
  • Love/Connection – everyone needs that love and connection.
  • Growth – we all must grow or die.
  • Contribution – there is a sense of contributing to something.

Each of us places a different need as important and this would dictate the type of relationships we get involved in.

On the job, you can only become prominent in your field if you gain the knowledge of your industry and this would not happen if you do not have a good relationship with the persons you interact with.

In your personal life, how do you relate to your spouse/partner, sibling, mother/father?  A good relationship at home fuels a healthy working relationship on the job.

If you cannot see yourself as worthy to be successful and you carry around baggage from your past all your relationships would be in jeopardy.

Sometimes there is so much baggage weighing us down – all the blame and hurt from the past keep coming up and as a result, our judgment of ourselves is clouded.

As the new year unfolds it is the opportunity to come to terms with yourself,  know what makes you tick, where do you want to be at the end of 2019 and what are you capable of.  Start leaving the baggage behind so that you can be free to develop your relationships and achieve success in 2020 and onwards.

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Is your relationship shaky??❤

If you are in a shaky or fractured relationship there is still hope.

Is there a sense of guilt, fear, and shame in the relationship?

When things begin to happen in a relationship no one wants to own up. Instead, each person starts criticizing each other. They start looking for the simplest things to criticize. You did this or that to me -you were bitter and angry? at me. I did not like how you spoke to me or how you answered when I called you.

Before you criticize anyone, you must first check your self, turn that finger and point ??towards you- are you without guilt?  Anyone can tell you guilt is a real horrible emotion to have.  When you are guilty you try to cover up by looking for it in your partner or someone else.

To get over this you have to learn to forgive. Forgiveness is at the heart of every relationship. It is the basis of love. When you love? truly love you learn to forgive.

Can you look at your partner /spouse in the eye and say – I forgive you. This can be hard for some people. Take some time and compose yourself and forgive.  Once you do this you would feel a sense of freedom, because forgiveness actually liberates you. Try it.

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How long can this go on?????

How long can you go on hurting in your relationship?

If you are in a relationship and the interaction is cold. The warmth is no longer there. You prefer to be more out than at home. It is time to ask yourself some serious questions. Can we get back to where we started and are we willing to work on improving the relationship?

You see a relationship is just like a house, it has to be maintained so if there was no maintenance it is going to fall apart.  Are you prepared to make the first move?  How long can this go on? Somebody must make the first move, there must also be some compromise. If there is no compromise and a lot of blaming or pointing fingers, these things break down your relationship.

It is the same thing at work or in a business relationship. Can everybody come out of the argument with a “yes”? Working relationships are very important for the job. Broken job relationships hamper performances and the company’s goals. Imagine you do not go to your Supervisor because you do not like him/her or you do not speak to your co-worker because of some disagreement. How long can this situation go on at work or in your business?

Relationships matter in everything. Some people who divorce sometimes realize they have the same problems in the new relationship. They still fail to take a check to see what is happening.

Believe it or not broken relationships help us to look at ourselves to see what is it that we need to fix in us, not the other person. It is only when we realize this we can truly be in a real relationship.

How long are you going to go on hurting and stressed out about your relationships? Isn’t time to get the fire back, to get that passion and warm cozy feeling back? Learn how to fan the fire and let it blaze and feel the magic of being in a relationship.


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Even if you are not in a relationship we can help.

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Same old excuses???

Have you been hearing the same old excuses from your loved ones lately?

We all have excuses for not doing certain things or for saying certain things.

In a relationship, excuses can really pull the connection apart when you keep hearing the same excuse over and over again.

Are you getting fired ?up ready for a fight, ready to pounce on the other person for what they are saying?

When this happens it helps to listen to what the other person is not saying and also to look at yourself to see what kind of emotions these excuses are bringing up. Why are you feeling this way and how can you use these emotions to lift yourself up thereby showing the other person that what they are trying to do is not affecting you.

You can use these old excuses to restore your relationship. Learn how by giving us a call – 954 306 1081 or email joseylifeline@

We all are in some kind of relationship and these excuses can put a dampen on them or can really make the relationship a joy to be in so give us a call – 868 465 0603 or 954 306 1081 or email joseylifeline@


How to handle differences

The last time you got into an argument how did you handle the differences.

Sometimes before we can think the words fly out and the fingers start pointing.

We judge and accuse not realizing that there are simple solutions to these differences.

Our differences should not find their way to court or to divorce. So how do we handle them?

1. Pray and examine yourself, your heart. Is this what you want. What led you to this.

2. Put yourself in the other person’s shoes. How do you feel about the situation?

3. Are there ways you both can get a yes?

4 .What is the purpose of your relationship?

5. Can you forgive that person?

6. Can they forgive you?

7. Can you behold that person with the eyes of love and glory in their perfection, just as God our creator beholds you with eyes of love?

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What are you coming home to?

At the end of the day what are you coming home to?

Some people may not have anyone to come home to, there is no one to talk to about your day, no one to sit and share your ideas  with. You know what,  if that is how you have decided to live then make the most of it.

If on the other hand you prefer the companion, the love and warmth, someone not only to share your dreams but someone to share their dreams  and we all need this love and connection, there are always options to attract that soul mate.

Would you be interested in exploring those options ?

Those who are coming home to someone  and don’t want to go home because of the quarreling , arguing and coldness there is always hope.

Relationships can be fun, rewarding and very loving. Think of the purpose of the relationship , what do you want out of it?  Does your partner know what you want out of it?  What if you can get help to  make this relationship work better would you be interested?

Relationships are the keys to success.

Relationships matter not only in a one and one, husband and wife, mother and daughter, father and son, children, partner but also on the job, how do you relate to your co-workers or your boss?

Good relationships help to improve performances on the job and also help to boost business if you are an Entrepreneur. As an Entrepreneur, if you cannot maintain a good relationship with your clients they would find someone else who they are more compatible with to do business.

Mindfulness-based stress reduction help to identify relationship blocks.

Let’s get you back to where you should be.

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